Since then she has lived the full and varied life of a business woman with a submissive male kept largely at home to look after her needs.

This book is written in response to the many requests from her friends and others who share her lifestyle. It is not a book for beginners or players but for serious people wishing to live the life. The book has been published by Miss Bellemare herself and is sold from her Boutique. My interests however are not to find a slave but to weave elaborate narratives of sexual fantasies within the boundaries of Femdom. I enjoy using my feminine charms and intellectual powers to push submissives into deep subspace. My intuition and keen observation will mean every little movement or reaction will not go unnoticed. I will play your body like a virtuoso. Nurturing matron, devious seductress, sadistic disciplinarian, are only some of the many roles I play. Under the age of 40 males slaves tend to be immature, insecure and see the relationship with a Mistress as some kind of fantasy game. In the middle years a truly submissive male who has found himself and knows what he wants and what he is will make a superb slave once properly trained. One Mistress Friend of mine has a slave of 70 who has served her for nearly 40 years. He serves her now as well as he did 20 years ago and she treats him as harshly as ever. 3 As an active member of a group of dominant women in the city and wider environment Miss Bellemare is well experienced in the control and training of submissive males.I welcome novice or experienced submissive’s, seeing you undress in front of me is the start of stripping your identity – a thrill from the start! My style is unique – playful and very sensual to extreme, strict and demanding, depending on my mood. I have on a number of occasions been criticised for being too severe, though not by any members of my group. I do not think anything contained in this book is severe or extreme but it is thorough and exacting. It is based on over twenty years of experience in dealing with the submissive male and represents, I think, an authoritative manual for success. I do not consider this a book for beginners but rather for those naturally dominant women who have already experienced the pleasures of being served by a slave but wish to take the relationship to new heights.

My concern here is to provide some guidance and ideas for the woman who is a true lifestyle Dominant wishing to own and be served by a real male slave. I want to move from the consensual Dominant/submissive role play situation to the far more satisfying lifestyle Mistress/slave situation in which he, having freely entered into the relationship has given up his right to be treated as a normal human being and has no choice (for whatever reason) but to submit permanently and continuously to his Mistress as a real slave. It is what I describe as contracted non consensual slavery. There are fifteen women in our group, seven have slave husbands and eight have slaves they are not married to. Of the fifteen, thirteen are now in the happy and rewarding situation of owning a non consensual slave. Some relationships started as consensual and progressed to the non consensual whilst others were non consensual from the start. Strangely enough the division does not tally exactly with those who are married and those who are not.

I have used the terms consensual and non consensual slavery and it requires me to give some explanation of these.