That means going at a much slower pace with a couple who’s kinkier than “just friends” but kind of new to the senior swinger lifestyle.

It’s amazing the bond you develop — people have such a dim view of swingers, thinking they’re skeevy or dirty. But that’s just not the case. We are just regular people with regular problems — but the lifestyle is an escape from all that.

To my surprise, I had the time of my life. In the past, I’d have been jealous about Ray looking at these gorgeous, fit girls, but this time, I wasn’t concerned at all. Why wait? ... Ali and husband Ray (not pictured) joined the swingers’ scene soon after the birth of their second daughter. Picture: YouTube/OpenMinded.com Regular people with regular problems ... Ali (not pictured) says the polyamorous lifestyle is an escape. Picture: YouTube/OpenMinded.com

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