Of course, you might be looking for an idea to dominate your man because he has asked for it, perhaps even if you’ve never shown any interest in it. If he is into feminization, use this chance to treat his cock as a clit as you use the vibrator on him. You can change your choices at any time by visiting Cookie preferences, as described in the Cookie notice.

It’s all about nurturing with slight hints of domination whilst still remaining calm, kind, and in control. Men’s relationship with butt stuff is either comedic, on account of poop and farts, or shameful, because sticking stuff up there is “gay”.It was one of those rare liaisons colored with an immediate sense of chemistry, comfort and communication. You can unclip his legs for easy access pegging, you can peg his ass, put a vibrator on his cock, or milk his cock at the same time.

Jay Wiseman’s Sm 101: A Realistic Introduction is a fantastic resource that teaches about the practical elements of BDSM and can give you some creative femdom ideas. You should never, ever try to force, push, cowers, pressure, put opon another persons to be subjugate if it not something they want to mutually try in any physical activity male or female.Being able to do this puts you in a great position and will instantly make your sub feel good and set you on your way to mastering the art of soft femdom. This is super simple, you want to be in full control, but be positive and supportive instead of forcefully dominant and punishing.